Online Sex Chat! Is It Cheating Or Not?

ok yeh its cheatin in the sens that u have lost trust and if thares no trust thares nothing any more am 14

Yup. You're being unfaithful emotionally and becoming sexually aroused and more than likely reaching orgasm with another. Even if it's only online.

yeah it's cheating. this happened to my friend. it's still a form of 'dirty' interraction with someone else. similar to phone sex. if it's not cheating then what is it?

ANY GUYS UP? im on cam and bored mw

YES it is...like you said if you are sneaking behind your spouses back then obviously you are doing something that will hurt them emotionally.I really wish guys would get their act together & realize that even though they cant touch these women these are real women they r looking at. We are the most vunerable when we are naked with our lover they (men) cheapen it when they look and fantasize of other naked woman in porn mags and videos.

happened to me! :( i believe it is !! we still dating each other!

first thing is out of order it can be women of all ages and can be quite serious about it especially specific chat sites but i agree with the definition of cheating , some guys jsut like to get away perhaps even to save a relationship, then get accused of cheating its absurd!

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Yes Their Real Women. Their Not Monsters From Outerspace. -.-"" They Have Feelings. But... I think Its Cheating...

i dont think it is cheating. if you arent doing anything physically to hurt your partners feelings on purpose, it sure as hell isnt cheating.

hmm... I think you r not at all right...

A general rule of thumb I go by is: if you would do the exact same thing if your partner were to be watching, it's not cheating.

No that's because they're young and immature, and the relationships they develop at that age are more like learning experiences, but thanks for your ignorant statement. Also, the definition of cheating they use is absurd. If a man goes golfing with his buddies but tells his wife he is going to home depot instead is that cheating? She doesn't want him golfing, and he has to lie about it ...so that must be cheating according to your logic. :)

Education. Seriously. It's a non-contact way to learn about what turns other people on. It's better than porn because there are real women who can give real feedback (well, ok maybe 80% of them are fake) but the feedback and the knowledge gained translates into new and exciting things in the bedroom. Our culture has a hard-on for monogamy so how is anyone going to learn? Now if he's meeting them in hotels... that's different, but talk is knowledge. Think of it as education.

I think its cheating! If you have a partner and it would be good, why should he/she go into online chatrooms and chat with other men/women?? I would be angry if would found out that may girl woulr do thinks like that!

Girls in chat rooms are fake of course its not cheating.. -wife staredown- .. of course its cheating theres real women connected to those chatrooms

has the woman thought of the fact that he could be emailing other women that are accually homosexual or gay guys posing? you cant call it cheating unless he and or you have met the person before.. cause for all he knows.. it could be a guy =)

A lots of couples become zoophile because they dont swing. So I consider, its better swingin than to become a zoophile.

You're disgusting! =(

A long time ago, A girl named Sally Myers, was bored one day. She went into the woods and was never found again. If you go to the spot she dissapeared, they say you can hear the sounds of laughing clowns. If you don't copy paste to 3 videos in the next 5 minutes you will be killed by a psycho clown

I would say its cheating in the form of making emotional bonds with other females behind your wife/girlfriend back in a sense that goes beyond friendship. But its not really cheathing when its just typing words? Ohyeah and I think its ok for guys to watch porn after said wife/girlfriend goes to sleep. Guys need to ejaculate or else we start going around killing people :P

I did some research and found out that changing partners is a part of human nature. Of course one might have many partners through a life but the human male is designed to have several partners through life. Making marriage kind of un-natural sort of speak. I do not in any way support cheating im simply pointing out the fact that cheating occurs because its a part of our nature. That being one of the reasons.

A long time ago, A girl named Sally Myers, was bored one day. She went into the woods and was never found again. If you go to the spot she dissapeared, they say you can hear the sounds of laughing clowns. If you don't copy paste to 3 videos in the next 5 minutes you will be killed by a psycho clown

well i think that cheating is normal b/c everyone does it.. know more kids at 13, 14, 15 start doing it too.. b/c they see that everywere!!

It all depends on whats in the emails and chats, if its just talk then no its not cheating, but if it gets alittle towards a sexual converstaion then yes it is cheating.